Planning a trip to Indonesia is an exciting endeavor. You’re about to explore a nation of staggering natural beauty, from volcanic landscapes and lush rice terraces to some of the world’s most pristine beaches. However, navigating its rich cultural tapestry and social norms is key to transforming a good vacation into an unforgettable and respectful journey.
To help you blend in and travel wisely, we’ve compiled this essential list of do’s and don’ts for your Indonesian adventure.
The Do’s: Your Guide to a Smoother, Richer Experience
- DO Dress Modestly, Especially in Sacred Spaces.
Indonesia is predominantly Muslim, and modesty is highly valued. When visiting temples (Pura), mosques, or rural areas, always cover your shoulders and knees. Sarongs are often available for rent at temple entrances, but carrying a light scarf or shawl is a pro-traveler move. Even in more liberal areas like Bali, dressing respectfully off the beach is appreciated. - DO Use Your Right Hand.
In Indonesian culture, the left hand is traditionally considered unclean. Make a conscious effort to use your right hand for giving and receiving money, shaking hands, handing over your passport, passing items to someone, and especially when eating. - DO Learn a Few Basic Phrases in Bahasa Indonesia.
While you can get by in tourist hubs with English, a little Indonesian goes a very long way.
· Hello: “Halo” or “Selamat pagi/siang/sore” (Good morning/afternoon/evening)
· Thank you: “Terima kasih” (pronounced: Teh-ree-mah kah-see)
· You’re welcome: “Sama-sama”
· Excuse me: “Permisi”
The effort is always met with warm smiles and appreciation.
- DO Be Patient and Go with the Flow.
Embrace the concept of “jam karet” (rubber time). Things may not always run on a strict schedule, and traffic in cities like Jakarta can be intense. Instead of getting frustrated, accept it as part of the local rhythm. Patience is not just a virtue; it’s a necessity. - DO Bargain Respectfully in Markets.
Bargaining is expected in traditional markets (not in malls or fixed-price stores). Do it with a smile and a friendly attitude. Start at about half the asking price and negotiate pleasantly until you reach a fair middle ground. Remember, the goal is a good deal for both, not to win. - DO Respect Local Customs and Traditions.
Be observant. If you see a ceremony taking place, observe quietly and don’t walk directly in front of people who are praying. On the island of Bali, you will see small, beautiful offerings (canang sari) on the ground. Be careful not to step on them.
The Don’ts: Avoiding Cultural Faux Pas
- DON’T Show Public Affection Excessively.
Holding hands is generally acceptable, but kissing, hugging, or other intimate contact in public is considered rude and disrespectful in most parts of the country. It’s best to keep physical affection private. - DON’T Point with Your Index Finger or Touch People’s Heads.
Pointing with your index finger is considered impolite. Instead, gesture with your whole right hand or use your thumb. Furthermore, the head is considered the sacred and most spiritual part of the body. Never touch anyone on the head, not even a child. - DON’T Lose Your Temper or Raise Your Voice.
In Indonesian culture, maintaining harmony (“rukun”) is paramount. Public displays of anger, shouting, or confrontation are seen as highly shameful and will immediately make others uncomfortable. Always strive to be polite and calm, even in frustrating situations. - DON’T Discuss Sensitive Topics Lightly.
Avoid initiating conversations about politics, religion, or racial issues. These are complex and sensitive subjects. It’s best to stick to neutral and positive topics like food, travel experiences, and the beautiful scenery. - DON’T Use Drugs.
This cannot be stressed enough. Indonesia has extremely strict anti-drug laws with severe penalties, including long prison sentences and, in some cases, the death penalty. Do not under any circumstances attempt to buy, carry, or use illegal drugs. - DON’T Flaunt Your Wealth.
While it’s safe to travel in Indonesia, displaying expensive jewelry, cameras, or large amounts of cash can make you a target for petty theft. Use your hotel safe and be discreet with your valuables when out and about.
A Final Pro Tip: DO Drink plenty of bottled water and use mosquito repellent. The tropical climate can be dehydrating, and it’s wise to protect yourself from mosquito-borne illnesses.
By following these simple guidelines, you show respect for the local culture and open the door to more genuine and rewarding interactions. The Indonesian people are famously hospitable, and your mindful approach will be recognized and rewarded with incredible warmth and kindness.
Selamat jalan! (Happy travels!)
